I HAVE been lashing out against my husband for degree that he over the years that he has NOT looked after me even AGGRAVATED my fragile state of mind. I DO know that he is NOT a bad person. Lately blind. As a MAN doing as best he CAN. That is not however necessarily GOOD ENOUGH. I’d argue that it is INCUMBENT upon him to STRIVE to do better. Do you ANY of you agree at ALL? Thanks.